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Writer's pictureSophia Whitehouse

Strategies for Managing Back-to-School Anxiety

The transition back to school can be a source of anxiety for many children. New routines, social pressures, and academic expectations can create stress and uncertainty. However, with the right strategies, parents can help their children manage back-to-school anxiety and start the new school year with confidence. Here are some effective strategies to support your child during this transition.


1. Establish a Routine

Why It’s Important:

A consistent routine provides a sense of stability and predictability, reducing anxiety.


How to Do It:

  • Set a Regular Bedtime: Ensure your child gets enough sleep by establishing a consistent bedtime routine.

  • Create a Morning Routine: Develop a structured morning routine to help your child start the day calmly and on time.

  • Practice the Routine: In the weeks leading up to school, practice the new routine to make it familiar and comfortable.


2. Talk About School

Why It’s Important:

Open communication about school can alleviate fears and build excitement.


How to Do It:

  • Discuss Expectations: Talk about what to expect in the new school year, including teachers, classmates, and subjects.

  • Address Concerns: Encourage your child to share their worries and address them with reassurance and solutions.

  • Highlight Positives: Focus on the positive aspects of school, such as seeing friends, learning new things, and participating in activities.


3. Visit the School

Why It’s Important:

Familiarizing your child with the school environment can reduce anxiety about the unknown.


How to Do It:

  • Tour the School: Visit the school together and explore the classrooms, playground, and other areas.

  • Meet the Teacher: Arrange a meeting with your child’s teacher to build a connection and address any questions.

  • Practice the Route: Walk or drive the route to school to make it more familiar.


4. Prepare Supplies Together

Why It’s Important:

Involving your child in preparing school supplies can create a sense of ownership and excitement.


How to Do It:

  • Shop Together: Let your child pick out their school supplies and backpack.

  • Label Supplies: Help your child label their supplies to make them feel prepared and organized.

  • Pack the Backpack: Pack the backpack together and review what will be needed each day.


5. Encourage Positive Social Interactions

Why It’s Important:

Positive social experiences can boost your child’s confidence and reduce social anxiety.


How to Do It:

  • Organize Playdates: Arrange playdates with classmates before school starts to build friendships.

  • Join Activities: Encourage your child to join school clubs or sports to meet new friends.

  • Teach Social Skills: Practice social skills, such as introducing oneself and starting conversations.


6. Teach Relaxation Techniques

Why It’s Important:

Relaxation techniques can help your child manage stress and anxiety.


How to Do It:

  • Deep Breathing: Teach your child deep breathing exercises to calm their mind and body.

  • Mindfulness: Introduce mindfulness practices, such as focusing on the present moment and using positive affirmations.

  • Physical Activity: Encourage regular physical activity to release tension and improve mood.


7. Monitor and Adjust

Why It’s Important:

Regularly monitoring your child’s progress allows you to make adjustments as needed.


How to Do It:

  • Check In Regularly: Have regular check-ins with your child to see how they are feeling and coping with school.

  • Adjust Routines: Be flexible and adjust routines if needed to better support your child’s needs.

  • Seek Support: If your child continues to struggle with anxiety, consider seeking support from a school counselor or therapist.

Conclusion

Managing back-to-school anxiety is essential for a successful and positive start to the new school year. By establishing a routine, talking about school, visiting the school, preparing supplies together, encouraging positive social interactions, teaching relaxation techniques, and monitoring progress, you can help your child feel more confident and less anxious. Remember, your support and reassurance can make a significant difference in your child’s transition back to school.


If your child needs additional support managing back-to-school anxiety, contact Achieve Psychology at 614-470-4466 (voice or text) or visit www.achievepsychology.org. Our experts are here to help your child thrive.




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